30 Things I Want Before 30

Now that I’m steadily creeping into my 20s, I’m getting nervous. You see, when I was in my teens, I thought a lot about my future. I didn’t have the smoothest ride through teenagerdom, so I was eager to be independent. An adult, emphasis on the first syllable. Little things like swinging my car keys around my index finger while making a run to the grocery store excited me. I imagined my future boyfriend sweeping me off my feet with his CD collection in his cozy New York City apartment. Yeah, this is back when people collected CDs. Fun fact about me: the only CD I ever purchased was Weezer’s Red Album. I don’t know where it went, but I still love me some Weezer.

Although I’m only 21, I feel like I’m so caught up in the responsibilities of being a near-adult that I’ve forgotten to focus on the goals I once had. The last time I made a list like this one, I was 18. I even know the exact date (Aug. 20, 2012), because it was posted on my last WordPress blog that is now private because it’s incredibly embarrassing. I just read through it now, and while I’m surprised by the things that haven’t changed, many things certainly have. So here’s take two of my goals for the second decade of my life.

30 Things I Want Before 30

  1. Some form of continued higher education. I’m not completely set on law school yet, but I know I’m not done with formal learning.
  2. Fluency in two more languages. I’m on my sixth now, Arabic. I like to think I have two more in me.
  3. Literacy in Mandarin. I can only read about half the common characters currently.
  4. A horse. Pretty self-explanatory if you know me. On another note, look at the pretty horse ring I picked up yesterday in St. Augustine!Copper Horse Ring
  5. Two adopted dogs. Named Blitz and Quinn.
  6. Turtles, housed in giant outdoor pond. Must redeem myself for mistreating turtles in my younger life. I’ve already given up on my fish karma, so I’ll just feed those little swimmers to my turtles.
  7. A weekly exercise routine. Well, it doesn’t have to be routine, but I’d like to keep playing squash, riding horses, and taking walks.
  8. Ability to sleep on my back. This is probably the hardest one on the whole list.
  9. Ability to sleep less than 9 hours. This might be the second hardest.
  10. Ability to drink alcohol. Forget what I said before — this is the hardest.
  11. Ability to apologize. Oh wait, no, this one is.
  12. My three favorite piano pieces, memorized. That’d be Beethoven’s Pathétique, one of the Bach fugues, and…hmm, not sure about the third.
  13. A painting, finished. This is where I left off with my first.Horse Painting
  14. Mad cooking chops. I think my chops are pretty good right now, but certainly not mad.
  15. A budget. Well, I sort of have one now, which consists of spending all my money. 😦
  16. Environmental consciousness. Which is why my dream car is the BMW X1, one of the most fuel efficient SUVs.
  17. General geographical knowledge. Why don’t they teach this in American schools?!
  18. A fabulous collection of lingerie. I’m stealing this one from my last list. Why? Because you know your life is going pretty well if you can spend time and money on lingerie.
  19. Community involvement. Whether exercising my voting rights or working in the government, I’d like to perform my civic duty.
  20. My novel, published. Hopefully I’ll get here before 30, but you never know.
  21. A year working abroad. I’m planning for Morocco in 2013-14.
  22. A year in Asia. I want to know my parents’ native countries better.
  23. A year in New York City. Probably more, but not too many.
  24. A job that I enjoy and serves a greater purpose. To me, that means nonprofit work that benefits lives around the world.
  25. A salary that gives me a comfortable life. Money isn’t everything, but it is important.
  26. A nice home somewhere that snows. That includes: a chalkboard-paint wall, a fireplace, a record player, a furnished basement, a fenced backyard, and a four-poster bed. Porch swing preferred.

    Chalkboard Wall

    Photo courtesy Apartment Therapy.

  27. A kid. Alexander Sebastian or Clementine Astrid. I believe in syllables.
  28. A best friend. Sometimes, I feel like these are harder to find than husbands.
  29. A wedding. Just one, please. I’d like it in the fall because my favorite season is winter, but I want an outdoor wedding, and my sensitive skin wouldn’t last a lick in subzero temperatures.
  30. A marriage. I’m not in a huge rush to be married, and I may have some commitment issues, but it’d be nice to have a husband before I have an Alexander.

I’m probably missing a lot of other important things, but oh well. If you are over 30, what advice would you give us 20-year-olds? If you are under 30, what are some of your goals?

Au revoir,



7 thoughts on “30 Things I Want Before 30

  1. Oh, how I can relate to many of those! The ability to apologize is a major goal of mine — and one on which I’m constantly working. I’ve gotten a lot better about saying “sorry” in the moment rather than later, which is my usual M.O., and the results have been positive. If only it weren’t so hard . . .

    Fluency in six languages with a goal of eight?! That is amazing. I took seven years of Spanish in high school and college, but my skills are so rusty now that I can only read the language and feel too embarrassed to speak it. You go!

    • I kind of stuck “ability to apologize” on there because it was on my last list and I’d feel like I’d regressed in maturity if I didn’t put it on this one! Honestly, I’m not working as hard at apologizing as I should be. You’re way ahead of me — I can’t even apologize after the moment…

      I really love languages! I love traveling and getting to know new cultures, and that’s just so hard without knowing the language, so I try my best to go where I can speak the language. I wouldn’t say I’m completely fluent in six languages — I don’t think you can truly achieve fluency without living in the country for awhile — but I’m working at it. 🙂 Have you been to Spain? One of my favorite places.

  2. Hi Rebecca,

    I think i can help you achieve one of your goals. To be more precise, the 17th point: General Geography. If you have an i-Pod,i-Phone or i-Pad you can download one app named “Geo Master 2”. You learn playing! Thanks to that app, i almost know all the countries of the world. And if you know very well Spanish and French i can recommend you 2 cultural series:

    “Españoles en el Mundo”: http://www.rtve.es/television/espanoles-en-el-mundo/ and
    “J’irais dormir chez vous”, that one you can find it on Youtube.

    Thanks to both series, I have a different perspective about humankind.

    On the other hand, I think I share many of your goals. By the moment I know 5 languages: Spanish, French, English, German and Portuguese. But before I die (maybe not before 30 haha), I hope that Russian, Chinese,Japanese and Greek will be included to my list. I recognize that it’s going to be tough for Chinese (at least 5000 hanzi’s) and Japanese (at least 2000 kanji’s) but not impossible to learn.

    And I hope to work at the government, foreign affairs of my country, the United Nations or an international NGO.

    Have a nice day!

    • Hi, thanks for dropping by! And thank you so much for all the recommendations — I’ll check them out and let you know what I think.

      You could probably understand Catalan and Italian easily, so that’s 7 languages! I also want to learn German. My next language would probably be Korean. You should definitely try to pick up Chinese. It’s such a useful and beautiful language. And of course, learning languages can be difficult, but it’s never impossible. 🙂

      Those are my ideal jobs as well. I hope I get to do one or more of them in the future. Are you currently working or are you a student? Seems like we share many common goals — perhaps our paths will cross in the future.

      Have a great day too!

  3. Wow! Do you think Korean is difficult to learn?

    Thanks for your recommendation, I will consider to learn Italian in a near future.

    By the moment I’m a student, I’m studying Public Administration and Public Policy. My personal dilemma is to study 2 masters, or 1 master and 1 PhD. My goal is to study 1 master (or doctorate) in a prestigious university of USA and the other one in Sciences Po Paris or in a academical institute of Mexico known as CIDE. By the moment I’m focused in having good results in my career, and then I’ll worry about the next step.

    If our path cross in the future, that would be pretty amazing and funny at the same time.I will be pleased to meet you if that happens.

    Changing the subject, I don’t know if you know an app named “Anki”, if so then i recommend you to download it. It’s very useful for learning languages and it’s free!

    Link: http://ankisrs.net/


Give us your two cents!

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s